Thanks for the hint GoinEasy9.
Now I think my Router was involved in all this somehow. After I resetted the whole DS213+ which took a long time (backup, and formatting the disk), I experienced the same behaviour. Finally I restarted my Netgear Router.
When I start a copy-procedure now, my dolphin seems to hang in the beginning and it takes a time I can see the progress in the KDE information log. But everything seems to work ok again.
Nevertheless I decided to avoid wifi and pulled a 50m ethernet cable through my residence. I should have done this a ages ago :-)
@mylo: Except for the connection problem I am very satisfied with this NAS. It works very well for me as a movie-deliveryboy together with my Samsung TV. There is a little bug with the dlna/upnp media server some people (incl. me) experience: if you pause a film for more than some seconds the stream interrupts and the server program crashes:
http://forum.synology.com/enu/viewtopic.php?f=114&t=47078&sid=948d7ecd3b740665412a433e8d9e4972It seems that I am not the only one with this specific problem on the combination Netgear router, Samsung TV and DS213+.
On my diskstation the media server process has to be started again. You can do this via browser interface or restart the whole diskstation.
There are more third party media server programs available, but I did not test them yet.
I tested the webserver functionality as well wich was a decisive factor for me. Apache and MySql are working well but I think the DS213+ is not strong enough to perform a whole TYPO3 system I originally hoped it will. But I think it will be enough for more economical Systems.
I did not test much more yet, but if someone has a question I will not bite :-)