some more insights from today below... i think more and more towards the Ethernet cable. need to find a replacement and check it after that
root@sidbox:[/home/absolut]# dmesg | grep eth
[ 0.939314] e1000e 0000:00:19.0 eth0: (PCI Express:2.5GT/s:Width x1) d0:50:99:73:d0:74
[ 0.939317] e1000e 0000:00:19.0 eth0: Intel(R) PRO/1000 Network Connection
[ 0.939349] e1000e 0000:00:19.0 eth0: MAC: 11, PHY: 12, PBA No: FFFFFF-0FF
[ 4.083717] IPv6: ADDRCONF(NETDEV_UP): eth0: link is not ready
[ 4.300173] IPv6: ADDRCONF(NETDEV_UP): eth0: link is not ready
[ 7.178634] e1000e: eth0 NIC Link is Up 1000 Mbps Full Duplex, Flow Control: Rx/Tx
[ 7.178678] IPv6: ADDRCONF(NETDEV_CHANGE): eth0: link becomes ready
[ 12.083049] e1000e: eth0 NIC Link is Up 100 Mbps Half Duplex, Flow Control: None
[ 12.083058] e1000e 0000:00:19.0 eth0: 10/100 speed: disabling TSO
[ 311.104061] e1000e: eth0 NIC Link is Down
[ 318.134169] e1000e: eth0 NIC Link is Up 100 Mbps Half Duplex, Flow Control: None
[ 318.134172] e1000e 0000:00:19.0 eth0: 10/100 speed: disabling TSO
[ 400.763223] e1000e: eth0 NIC Link is Up 1000 Mbps Full Duplex, Flow Control: Rx/Tx